Surviving BAD Choices….WPDailyPrompt

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Coming To a Bookshelf Near You.”:  Write a summary of the book you’ve always wanted to write for the back cover of its dust jacket.

Surviving Bad Choices…a wilderness guide for the weary soul by Peggy Smith

In her unique approach to a self-help book that Peggy denies has anything to do with helping yourself, you will delightfully discover how to survive making bad choices in life.

We all have done it and when it is too late we stunningly realize we made a really bad choice.  It could be anything from buying that fancy sports car that was in a flood, choosing a supreme narcissist for a room-mate in college, paying big bucks for a concert that sucked or downsizing to a camper and dedicating your life to sustainable living only to find out you really, really need to have your own backyard. Continue reading

Leaving Albuquerque……WPDailyPrompt

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “Beyond the Pale. “When was the last time you did something completely new and out of your element? How was it? Will you do it again?

For most of us, there have been times in life where all you ever thought was true and forever falls apart and you are left suspended in grief.  A few years after my husband passed away, while I was still a bit lost and forlorn, a friend of mine invited me to go on a camping tour in the southwestern part of the US. I said, “Sure. Why not. Wandering around in the desert aimlessly seems like a perfect place for me to be.”

The back of the pickup was packed, I was in my earth woman attire and as we drove out of Albuquerque, NM, I suddenly remembered, “I don’t like the sun, dry air or hot weather in any way, shape or form.” Continue reading

She’s Not Me…WPDailyPost

In response to The Daily Post’s writing prompt: “The Full Moon.”  When the full moon happens, you turn into a person who’s the opposite of who you normally are. Describe this new you.

Note: This is a totally fictional offering….the events never really happened….or did they?

The changes began around age 45.  A lot happens to a women when the rights of passage arrive in waves of hormones raging through her bloodstream like a tsunami. At first there was no mystery; all women face this transformation in life and being a child of the 60’s I was ready to embrace and celebrate the mature goddess within. Or so I thought. Continue reading

For the Love of Dogs and Their Owners..WP Daily Post

us2I am a life long pet owner.  My family’s heritage was that of workers, labors and farmers.  Animals were always in my life and I think maybe there was a grand design that made me part of theirs.  My father raised a variety of hunting dogs and it was part of my daily chores to tend them in some way. Continue reading

The Tides of Retrospect

“Everything flows, out and in; everything has its tides; all things rise and fall; the pendulum swing manifests in everything; the measure of the swing to the right is the measure of the swing to the left; rhythm compensates.” – the Kybalion”

020I find my self in a “drift” once again. It’s not a new place.  I have been here before.  For me being adrift is an intentional journey as I cast away in a dream ship of my own making.   Continue reading

When A Tree Falls

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Today I was inspired by a whispering curiosity to spend some time contemplating the natural world. For some unknown reason I wondered, “What happens when a tree falls in the forest?”  A once magnificent natural wonder, standing tall, strong and rooted in the earth tumbles to the forest floor.  It could have been a storm, a lightening strike or just time for its life cycle to end.   It came to me that the “never-ending circle of life” that moves to the rhythms of creation and destruction within a forest is constantly showing us what we need to understand when faced with ‘change’ through the phases of our lives.

“I think that I shall never see
A poem lovely as a tree.”

From “Trees” by Joyce Kilmer

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Imagine There’s No Cellphone

Hello dear readers;

If you haven’t guessed, I’m reviving my attempts at Blogology.  I previously sent a post out that linked to a dead-end. Sorry about that but its kinda of how life has felt recently; a bit dead-‘endish’. But now I’m tired of leaning my forehead against a stone wall and am slowly finding my way back to the endless and open pathways of my creativity.

It may seem like I am repeating myself but I have decided to revamp some earlier articles and share just for fun. New stuff is on the way just a soon as the rest of the fog lifts and cobwebs disappear from my mind.

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IMG_1615Imagine There’s No Cellphone

I just had the strangest time traveler moment.  I was futzing about doing daily stuff; cleaning bathrooms, vacuuming, changing sheets, doing laundry and general life maintenance when I realized I didn’t know where my cell phone was.  It had been over an hour since anyone had called, texted or nudged me and then panic set in.  Did I drop it in the washer on the last load?  OMG! Continue reading

Painless Greatness….WP Daily Prompt

Word Press Daily Prompt…Do you agree with Jane Fonda’s favorite exercise motto, “no pain, no gain?” Is it impossible to attain greatness without considerable hardship?

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There are many theories in our modern tendency to over analyze all things.  For example your birth order is now considered a major influence on your personality.  I was the oldest girl of six children which has all kinds of psychological implications but actually none of them apply to me because my wise and wonderful, carefree older brother somehow decided to step out of his designated position and do whatever sounded like the most fun. By default as second born, I then inherited what was supposedly the leadership status of the “first-born” profile.

As explained by Stewart, using Adler’s framework, the firstborn child (or one with the “oldest” role) would be most likely to take on a leadership position, like it when people stick to rules and order, and strive toward achievement goals.

So here’s the deal, I felt the pressure of the ideals in being in charge but I had no real drive to “strive toward achievement goals‘.  Yes, I know this is a very strange paradox but in that confusion I devised a way to please everyone.  Somehow I quickly learned to maximize my creative talent for problem solving using the least amount of effort, while hopefully fulfilling the needs of those around me by making sure everyone was cared for and behaving as they should.  Of course this was done out of a subconscious primal instinct to survive life without giving into “the rules.”

So what does this have to do with Jane Fonda’s famous statement, “no pain, no gain”?  Somewhere around the age of 16, which was the year my youngest sibling was born, my father took me aside and gave me one of those paternal pep talks.  Mom was not doing well, there was a new baby to care for and basically I was the back up mom and homemaker.  I think it was his intention to inspire me to be strong, do better and buck up under the pressure of the situation.  It seems as though this was his version of  “no pain, no gain” but it didn’t quiet translate to a motivation speech.  These were his words, “I know there is a lot to do but you need to be doing more.  It takes a lot of brains to be lazy and get away with it and you are obviously a very smart kid, but stop thinking and just do more.” 

I’m not sure what snapped on that particular day.  I did try hard to do my best but the struggle to push harder, do better and become stronger seemed to only strengthen my instincts to find the path of least resistance.  The only thing I held on to from that moment so many years ago was, “it takes brains…….you are obviously a very smart kid.”  Those adolescent years were riveted with intense moments of pain and jubilant times of joy.

In considering the question, “is it possible to achieve greatness without considerable hardship?”  I absolutely believe that greatness and hardship have nothing to do with each other.  Many “great” people lived blissful lives of abundance and support while achieving painless greatness while others gained the highest status of greatness while facing insurmountable hardships.

Isn’t it awesome how a simple question posted on a massive social network of people telling stories can spark such great potential in sharing the human adventure?  Some might see it as the lazy writers way of expression but for me, it offers a brilliant path of ease and flow and gives us all a platform to gain insight on our collective and personal greatness.  Thanks to you all at WordPress.com and all the brains it takes to make this moment happen.

By the way, Jane Fonda was a first-born child and just in case we have forgotten she also had a drive ” …to survive life without giving into the rules.”  And just to bring things up to date, here is one of her more recent quotes,

The challenge is not to be perfect…it’s to be whole”
Jane Fonda

 

 

Buster Brown Where are You Now?..WP Prompt

August Blues Daily Prompt
As a kid, were you happy or anxious about going back to school? Now that you’re older, how has your attitude toward the end of the summer evolved?

I grew up in Ohio where the heat of August was a trusted usher to September; the bringer of “Back to School Torture Rituals.”  My school day memories were never as splendid as my summertime adventures.  It seems I was always frightened of going to school so I didn’t let go of August until the very last moment when I looked down at my feet and saw my new shoes take that first step on to the bus. Continue reading

Life is But a Stream

Everything hurt.  It was not a soft landing.  It’s so dark. How did I get here?  Where am I?  And yes, everything does hurt.

Someone is coming.  Light, I can see a light moving toward me.  At last, I will be rescued from this dark nothing.  I will no longer be stranded on this ugly, cold planet.  I am saved.

“Gracie, are you OK? How many times have I told you to stop crawling around under the porch and sliding down that old coal-bin shaft?  Look at you.  You are a mess and your knees are all scraped up again.  When are you going to learn to behave like a normal little girl and play with dolls and learn to bake cookies?  What are we going to do with you?”

Grandma always ended her scolding with, “What are we going to do with you?” 

That imaginative little girl desperately wanted to say, Just leave me somewhere on an unknown planet and maybe something interesting will happen.”  But I didn’t.

I’m all grown up now and I rarely skin my knees but my curiosity about what it would be like anywhere but here never ended. I never played with dolls and my sorry efforts at baking only proved I should never be left alone in a kitchen.  Homemaker, would not be my calling.

Several years ago, while I was drifting around in confusion trying to find some direction for a career focus, I saw a short but brilliant video entitled, Brother-Can a Robot Create Life by Sari Rodrig. In that one quick interval, I knew exactly what my life’s quest would be.

Today I am presenting a final dissertation which is a direct result of my quest.  Today, in front of the most renowned Physicists, Biorobotics Engineers and Artificial Intelligence Developers, I, Dr. Grace Lambert, PHD Biorobotics, M. Sc. will prove that; Yes, a Robot Can Create Life.  

I have devoted twenty years of research to this project.  In just a few minuets, I will share my findings freely with the world.

I hate the lull while waiting to be introduced. It’s still a bit unbelievable; I have actually discovered a life force dynamic that has been an invisible part of human evolution since the beginning of time; life is movement, perpetual and contagious……..

” What did you say?  Excuse me you are not allowed  in the ready room.  Who are you?  No, I will not come with you!  I’m calling security!  Stop, don’t do that!

Supermassive_black_hole-825x350It’s so dark.  Why can’t I see anything?  How did I get here?  Where am I?  Why am I here? Who is here? And yes, everything does hurt.  Someone is coming.  There is a light.

Grandma is that you?  Who are you? ” 

A reverberating voice assures Grace she is safe.  Once her vision clears, Grace finds herself face to face with two glorious ‘other worldly’ beings.

“OK.  I’m sure this is a dream.”

They spoke in unison, “You are not dreaming. We will keep this simple and straight forward.  Your discoveries about the perpetual life force energy that has no boundaries cannot be given to humans at this time so we had to do something extraordinary to stop you. Your life form imprint was erased  from the Earth Grid. Do you find your new surroundings comfortable?’

“Why can’t we know the truth?  Who are you to deny the scientific pursuit of knowledge?” Grace somehow already knew what she was about to hear.

“We are seeing an escalated reference to the theory that your 3rd dimension reality is nothing more than a computer generated hologram. Your findings will ignite a spontaneous reaction of knowing. The masses will begin to understand that human life is created by a unified source of energy. Therefore, if humans created computer technology and computer technology created robotics, it would be possible for a Robot to Create Life because life is merely a circulating stream of life force energy.”

What harm is there in that revelation?”  Grace paused, amazed but no longer dazed by her situation.

“Your discovery could result in a collective, premature, human awakening causing a conscious unplugging from the hologram and then we would have to start the experiment all over again.  Please enjoy our hospitality; you will be with us for a very long time.”

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This short visit to my imagination was composed in response to the writing challenge at THE SPEAKEASY…Click above and meet the Creatives.